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March 31, 2006

Adult Baby Diaper Lovers

Interestingly not many people ask me to write about adult baby diaper lovers but some do and the person who owns this site has asked me to cater for many fetishes including this one. I personally love the fetish. It is fun, erotic and horny all rolled into adult role playing.

A few months ago I asked a couple of my writers if they would help me out with an order for AB DL stories and I could almost feel and see the horrified look on their faces through my email. The silence was deafening before I finally heard back from one, followed by another and another that… “Oh no… I could never write about people wearing nappies or even picture them sucking on bottles!”

This amazed me. I had writers who were interested in trying something new because they didn’t know about this fetish. What they didn’t realise is when it comes to writing if you don’t understand something you research and that is what I did when I first started writing about this fetish and many others.

Now that I have that off my chest let me tell you a little about what I learnt in my research which allowed me to produce quality adult baby diaper lover stories. Let me also say here that all the stories that I write for this fetish are of legal age; this means that all the stories featured adult babies.

Adult Baby Diaper Lovers is a fetish for people who are interested in age role-play, wearing diapers, playing baby as in age play and infantilism activities. In most cases I found that many couples were interested in the same fetish and in a lot of circumstances one had the role of baby while the other was the adult. I also found that both men and women like to play the role of baby; it is not just the women who are made to be the baby and like her daddy.

The guy can also take on the role of adult baby and can be loved, nurtured, punished and made feel like a sissy, if the couples wish to take their time together along those lines.

Before I go any further; infantilism is where one gets their kicks and sexual pleasures from being treated or acting like a baby and like babies they wear nappies or diapers (preferably plastic ones). Adults who are into infantilism also use their diapers for intended purposes. They will even go as far as wearing very large or adult size baby attire such as clothes, baby bibs and they will use pacifiers (big dummies) and baby bottles.

Wearing baby clothes, bibs and using pacifiers and bottles is only just a small part of it. These adults who are interested in infantilism will go as far as being treated like a baby will be spoon fed mushy foods (sometimes baby food), being fed by a bottle by someone or a lover within the role playing context.

When I researched this fetish for the stories I ended up writing several different themes for the stories. An adult baby party, control stories where the partner controls the adult baby’s every need and pleasure and I covered men and women who wore their diapers out. They would wear them to work, out to dinner, to parties… any where they could really.

Some men and women somehow were found to be wearing a diaper and were put into the position of being treated like a baby by the person who had discovered their secret.

I mentioned the fetish adult baby diaper lovers to another writer that I knew and she automatically associated it with minors. Let me say this and I have seen on other sites also that in no way is this fetish related to anything other than adults. Adults who are having a good time are either partner to partner or they are couples sharing their love for this fetish. That is what this fetish is all about.

The people involved can take their moments together as far as they want. Some even have their own nursery set up with all the things that adult babies need.

Until next time, perhaps you can persuade the owner of this site to ask me write a story about adult baby diaper lovers.

March 30, 2006

Lingerie

There was a time when I liked my women naked. The touch of soft smooth skin, the gentle curve of a ripe breast or the fuller curve of a tight ass that just nestled in my hand was all that was needed to turn me on.

And it didn’t really matter if the girl was skinny or plump, tall or short, brunette or blonde. They were all attractive to me as long as they were naked. Nor was it just me, if you go back through some of the old websites and some of the old girlie magazines, naked women were all the rage.

Now I’m not trying to say that I’ve lost interest in naked women or that you won’t find naked women in huge numbers on the Internet or in magazines, because you will. They really are everywhere.

But what I do want to suggest is that sexy women wearing sexy lingerie are becoming much more popular than they once were. Not only are they becoming popular on the Net and in print but they are becoming much more popular with me too.

There’s a hint of mystery about a woman who is wearing sexy lingerie. There’s something hidden, something to excite the imagination, something to explore and investigate. And it adds a whole new dimension to the gentle dance of intimacy and stokes the raging fires of desire to a new level of passion.

Perhaps that sounds like just so much waffle, after all who can really get excited over a bra and panties or maybe something that you’re going to sleep in?

Well if that’s what you think then you haven’t really looked at what is available for sensual women these days. Lingerie covers a whole lot more than bras, panties and something to wear to bed at night and its all that ‘whole lot more’ that is designed to add mystery to a woman’s body.

It can be long and flowing, it might be short and sassy, it can be sheer and almost transparent or it can patterned and completely opaque. Whatever it might be it is designed to tease and tantalize the viewer. It will be designed to accentuate and enhance those flowing curves that I spoke about earlier and all those things will add a new erotic dimension to any sensual woman.

I didn’t believe that anything could be better than a naked woman until my partner bought a chemise and wore it for the first time. It was short and sassy and her cute ass peeked out from under the hem, her pussy was just barely covered and it accentuated the cleavage between her big boobs.

The result took my breath away and the mystery and allure was just incredible. There was promise of things to come, a tease of those cute ass cheeks and the knowledge that I could let my hands explore her body and search all those hidden places that lay just out of sight.

Lingerie can be something as simple as bra and panties or something to wear to bed at night but why limit yourself or your partner to such basic items. I’ve already mentioned a chemise and then there are bustiers, camis, corsets, gowns, teddies and much, much more.

To describe each one of those items is outside the scope of this short piece but if you search the Net you will find stores that specialize in lingerie and they clearly show what each item looks like. You can even buy on line and surprise your partner but guys, if you’re looking to buy something special for lady let me give you a couple of important things to consider.

A friend who works in a store that specializes in sexy lingerie gave me these two important tips and she certainly had the experience to back up her advice.

Every guy wants to buy his lady the sexiest outfit available. Now for some ladies that’s fine but others need a little encouragement when it comes to sexy lingerie. They may not have considered just how it can enhance their natural beauty.

With that in mind, you need to start them off slow. Don’t rush in and buy the sexiest outfit in the catalogue. Instead, ease them into lingerie with something that’s a little less daring, a little more conservative and maybe next time buy them something that is a little more daring.

Also when you’re buying a piece of lingerie for your lady be realistic about the size that she will need. Invariably men buy lingerie that is way too small for their lady. Not only do you then have the hassle of exchanging your purchase but you have also just pointed out to her that she’s possibly a little overweight.

You have probably also just told her that you don’t look at her all that often. So check the site or catalogue for sizes and then check your lady’s wardrobe to see what sizes she wears before you actually make your purchase. That way you know that the piece you buy will send all the right messages and think about colours too.

My lady has beautiful blonde/brown hair and her complexion is tanned so greens, blacks and whites look stunning on her. Blue is an absolute disaster and reds aren’t too bad. That means that if you want to buy your lady some lingerie as a surprise gift then you are going to have to choose the colour too so try and match the colour of the lingerie with the colour of something that she looks really good in

So I hope that gets you thinking about using lingerie to make your lady feel sexier and add a touch of mystery and allure to her sweet curves and beautiful body. You can do it all by mail order but you have to approach the task with care and planning to get it right...