Spanking
Many people will remember back to their childhood years when they were spanked for doing something wrong. It was a form of punishment that parents used to discipline us.
That sounds very familiar, doesn’t it?
Spanking still continues to be apart of our lives in one way or another; in sexual play, in domination and in fantasies. Some partners will ‘lovingly’ spank their babe’s ass while he is taking her from behind, or while she is riding him.
I’ve seen spanking videos and pictures of girls laying over someone’s lap and he or she is spanking the recipient. It can be a turn-on for both parties involved. There is no discrimination when it comes to a spanking. Both male and females can be the giver or the recipient.
A lot of people get aroused by watching someone being spanked and the recipient can also become aroused while receiving a spanking. It is a form of domination but some people don’t see it like that when they enjoy a sensual moment with their partner.
One guy once told me that he finds spanking very erotic and sensual and he likes to spank his partner. But he doesn’t spank her when she is naked because he likes her to wear a short black latex skirt. I guess you could say that he likes two fetishes as long as they are put together in one sensual moment.
He loves watching her skirt ride up over her hips especially when she is bent over his knee. Lifting her skirt gently up over her bare ass he rubs his hand firmly over her buttocks before raising his hand. Her whimpers as it comes down onto her flesh turn both of them on. After each spanking he rubs her ass gently before bringing back down again.
That is just one example of how some people enjoy a spanking.
I have a slave that comes to visit and I love spanking him. He calls me Mistress.
I start his session by asking what naughty things he has gotten up since his last visit. I listen intently and weigh up how long he stayed away for before deciding which way to take our time together.
The session certainly doesn’t start with a spanking, because I prepare him first by playing with his nipples before clamping them. Once they are in place, I may talk quietly to him before moving away but only for a moment to retrieve the weights that I hang from his cock and balls. My slave is well trained and often comes with his leather cock and ball attire in place ready for me to attach the chains and weights.
Once they are in place, I like to bend him the wooden frame on my king size bed. It’s a good size for me to work with and he is just at the right height for me to spank him. In my mind I weigh up how naughty he was and work out just how much punishment he should receive.
I usually like to let my hand rub gently across his bottom first and without warning I take my hand up and bring it down against his naked flesh. I may spank him five or six times before rubbing his hot bottom. It depends on how I feel to how I spank him.
I know the spanking turns him on but at the same time he is not allowed to show that he is enjoying it. However his hardness is quite noticeable and we do go further than a spanking. I certainly love the way his ass glows red and it is often nice and warm before I move to find his special paddle.
Everyone is different and spankings do vary from person to person. You will find that many people perform a spanking in various ways and you will also find the recipient also responds in different ways.
Marie