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Of course, swinging isn’t for everyone and it’s usually the girl who doesn’t want to get involved. Quite often not wanting to get involved is because of fear; the thought of wild uninhibited sex with a bunch of people you hardly know can be scary. On top of that there is the problem of how some girls see themselves.

They can think of themselves as completely unattractive and they’re afraid that if they try swinging they will be rejected because they aren’t pretty enough or they’ve got stretch marks or cellulite or any one of a dozen other reasons why they won’t be accepted. Sadly they don’t understand that most swinging groups are made up of ordinary people just like those you see on the streets and down at the malls every day of the week.

If the swinging groups are made up of ordinary people then ordinary people just like you and me will fit right in and feel comfortable.

So if you’re a guy who wants to get into swinging and your lady doesn’t then don’t push her. Instead take it slowly, sit down and talk it through and even show her some swinging sites so that she can see that she really does have nothing to fear. Most swingers groups will have some strictly social events and suggest that you start by going to those.

Make your lady feel comfortable and let her take control of the situation and even set the pace. But even when she does agree to go to a full-on swinging session don’t think your problems are over because they could just be starting.

My partner and I have seen lots of girls come right out of their shells in swinging groups and that innocent little sweetie some guy has married is really turns out to be a raging whore underneath that sweet exterior. Could you handle it if your partner turned into a wild sex machine?

What would happen and how would you feel if you didn’t score with any chicks at the party but your partner got fucked senseless and enjoyed every second of it. How would you feel if some guy made her moan and scream more than you ever could?

We’ve seen it happen and some guys can handle it and others can’t. It’s really sad to see that situation because the guy has usually done all the pushing to get her into the swinging scene and suddenly she’s enjoying it and he isn’t.

So even if you’re partner is ready you may not really be as ready as you think so be careful and consider every aspect of swinging before you jump into the situation.

Even if you are both quite balanced about the whole situation still be prepared to take things slowly. The best swinging groups are very well organized and will ease you into the scene. You will find that there is a certain etiquette that you need to understand and follow.

You should never be rude and pushy and just because a sexy babe attends a session and you want her doesn’t mean that she may necessarily want to have sex with you. Nor is there any obligation for her to do that so be prepared to accept a polite refusal now and again.

Even if someone is willing to have sex with you don’t rush it, they are more than just a pussy to fuck and if you treat them like a real person you could be on your way to establishing a serious ongoing relationship between them and their partner and you and your partner.

There’s a lot more to swinging that just what I’ve mentioned here because it really is a way of life and you can’t cover that in just a few paragraphs. So be prepared to learn as you go, be prepared for a lot of fun, a lot of great sex and some interesting relationships.